WHY SHOULD I CARE ABOUT SAFER SEX?

Because our sex lives are often ignored in mainstream culture, and often our sex is not considered “real sex,” there is little information available about the pleasures and risks associated with our sexual expressions. Sexually transmitted infections (STI) don’t care about your gender or sexuality—the reality is that sexual health risks have little to do with who you are or who you are sexually attracted to—and lots to do with what you do and how you do it. It’s important for everyone to make informed choices about sex regardless of who their partners are or how many partners they have.

WHAT IS AN STI?

STIs are caused by various bacteria, viruses and parasites that can be transmitted through bodily fluids or physical contact.
• Bacterial diseases such as chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis live in vaginal fluids and semen. They can be treated, but you may become re-infected if you have sex with another infected partner.
• Viral infections such as human papillomavirus (HPV), herpes, hepatitis, and HIV are carried by bodily fluids—especially blood, vaginal fluids and semen. Some viruses can also be spread through skin-to-skin contact whether an outbreak is visible or not. Once you have a virus, you always have it.
• Scabies and crabs are parasites that can be transferred from one person to another through any physical contact or through sheets, towels, clothing or other belongings. Parasites can be treated, but you may become re-infected.

I THOUGHT YOU COULD ONLY GET STIs THROUGH HETEROSEXUAL SEX.

STIs, including HIV (the virus that causes AIDS), can be passed from any one sexual partner to another, regardless of the sex or gender of you or your partner. The level of risk you have for contracting an STI is based on behavior, not identity.

WHAT ABOUT DRUG USE?

Despite their title, sex isn’t the only way you can get STIs. HIV and other STIs transmitted through blood can be passed on through sharing needles or syringes. If you inject hormones, shoot up or use IV drugs, you can protect yourself by using a clean needle and works (cotton, cooker, spoon, etc.) every time. Make sure to throw away your used needles/works, and do not share them with others. Check to see if there is a needle exchange program in your area. You can also clean your needles and works with bleach and water. Check out the last page for resources to learn how.